Some of my colleagues complaint about the hot weather; few steps out in the streets brought sweat to our faces. A few said they wouldn't want to go back there again, perhaps deterred by the hot weather. To me, one who could withstand hot weather, it was a place worth a second visit, a second time to check out and understand the people and their lifestyle there better.
Monday, June 11, 2007
Ho Chi Minh trip - journal in photos
Some of my colleagues complaint about the hot weather; few steps out in the streets brought sweat to our faces. A few said they wouldn't want to go back there again, perhaps deterred by the hot weather. To me, one who could withstand hot weather, it was a place worth a second visit, a second time to check out and understand the people and their lifestyle there better.
Friday, June 08, 2007
Saturday, June 02, 2007
Back with old work family
Me getting quite weird these days, missing home and family and stuff like that. During the weekends I'll wonder what my Mama Papa are up to and worry if I have not spent enough time with them. This thought can get quite obsessive sometimes, which isn't too healthy. Perhaps coz WW's new house is almost ready; 3 more months before they all can move in! :)
Will be off to Vietnam coming Fri and back on Sunday late night. This is the second of our overseas D&D by the company, which is quite a nice idea except that I hope Vietnam doesn't give me lotsa pimples to tackle when we come back. Heard it's kinda polluted there and the weather rather humid. Lazy me would prefer to laze around in Singapore actually. But shall keep an open mind and see which Ho Chih Min has to offer!
Saturday, May 26, 2007
The new 精英
This group of 7 potential MAs were eager, young and almost ready to venture out to see the world. Some came prepared with questions; most were concerned about their progression, career paths and the company's adaptability to changes. Hope my answers to their questions didn't turn them away from my company. Haha.
Lunch was at Lingzhi vegetarian restaurant with my Group Head and this scholar candidate, an Indian lady who graduated from RJC and was going to start uni life at NTU. My initial impression of her through her CV wasn't good - you know, the kind who wrote long paragraphs and rather braggy statements in their CVs just leave somewhat a little distaste in you. But the meet-up proved she's worthy of the scholarship as she was confident and displayed sincerity and her true self. But still, as HG mentioned, they will have to go through 3-4 years of work and through trying periods before they are proven solid.
From these interactions with the younger batches, I can tell what's up ahead for the rest of us more seasoned employees in the market and that we should all find our niches. There'll be tough and competitive times ahead, with those who always dress and speak vocally to impress, those that have the flair of the tongue to cut sharp during meetings and who would go out more to get an edge over others. This sounds scary, but somewhat is true. Just look around at the foreign students coming over to join our local cohort and giving the latter a really hard time to fight to outscore them.
In one way, we're lucky to have avoided the influx of these foreign students (that might have secured me my seat in VJC and subsequently in NUS). But going forward, we'll have to focus on what we do best and to excel in them - then can we beat the rest.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Emotions are a hard thing to handle
Applied a day leave to attend Business Insight Seminar organised by ST and OCBC. The presentations were rather useful as they provided business tips; some of them were interesting especially when delivered by their fluent presenters. Setting up and running your business do sound tough, but what keeps you going is your passion, not like when you're slogging for some big corporate and doesn't help when you disagree with some of these corporate policies.
Sunday, May 20, 2007
Whooshing good time
WW gave me this for our anniversary:
A cool Wilson Ncode W6 Wild Crimson! And he bought me this pink Nike sportsbra that I liked. :)
On the other hand, I gave WW a tennis racket too! The high-powered N-blade 98.With these new toys on hand, we'll go for more tennis workouts!
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Influx of Interns
Thinking back of my internships, those days seemed so simple. You just aimed to get more work in office and were concerned about issues which we now feel are trivial matters. Each day, you worried about not having a lunch-mate, of not having enough work to do, or not being able to mingle with the rest and also there being a lack of clothes to wear to work.
These concerns, though vividly-remembered, were so far away for me. These days I don't see myself having to worry about people commenting on the same few pieces I wear to work or that no one talks to me in office. These day, we worry more about how to communicate in the most effective way to your boss (according to his/her style) and about making those steps to pull yourself closer to your goal or dream. (I'm also secretly happy that I have a packed wardrobe of clothes to choose from, most of them picked and bought without that financial constraint in mind.)
Back to the topic of influx, yes we welcome them into the company, but that also signifies to me the onset of a change I have to make.
Monday, May 14, 2007
One step closer!
World Breads: From Pain De Campagne to Paratha (The Small Books of Good Taste Series)The next step: that bread machine.
Yippie!
I seek liberation
But often, especially since taking up more personal activities during the weekdays, it is tough to keep to this good habit. Many a times, I have to deal with a personal dilemma - to continue surfing/ working or to sacrifice on doing these few more things to get an early night's sleep. On one hand I know it's good for the body to get ample rest and sleep, on the other hand I want more time to do my things, a long list of them. If I choose to stay up longer, I end up being regretful for the lack of sleep; if I choose to sleep, I would be grouchy at that point in time for not getting to do the things I like. Such a hard balance.
This internal struggle, though it might look small to you, was bugging me to no end. So I've decided to make choice now to liberate myself from this struggle, which explains why I'm still blogging at 12.30am now. Heck all the considerations about feeling sleepy at work, about body not getting enough recovery and repair time, about having the good of both.
As long as it makes me happy.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
It's our celebration :)
Friday, May 11, 2007
A different perspective on goals
So, yesh, I'm happy to find a supporter. Not someone who belittles my idea and think there won't be a market for it. Or laugh whenever I mention about it.
A piece of good news: We'll be flying off to New York later part of the year, with free air tickets! Lucky me won 2 return tickets to NY and we'll be off to visit WW's sis & her baby when she's born. Yippie, came just at the right time, many thanks to Overseas Singaporean Unit newly set up by PMO.
Sunday, May 06, 2007
太在乎
有朝一日,我会过着与阳光共舞的日子。
Monday, April 30, 2007
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Yippie to long weekends!
This morning WW and I were at Burghley tennis complex sweating out over a game of tennis. Wah, we recalled our games at NUS tennis courts, where after our game we could just crossed a road to our hostel for a bath and a nice meal outside or cooked in hall. Then, I was also lamenting how our stamina just didn't seem to be the level it used to be when we were in Uni.
Yeah, tomorrow it's my leave day and Tuesday a holiday. Fortunate me don't have to handle non-routine work and no one will likely disturb me on my weekends or leave days. This is unlike a lot of other occupations where staff are easily reachable via BlackBerry or just a phone call on mobile. So the next two days are going to be nua days somemore! Yay.
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Yummy 爱心面
This evening we were supposed to run along Esplanade and Marina Promenade, but my dear kakis were waiting for the commencement of an important meeting and the dark clouds loomed too. So off I went to the neighhourhood gym - Tampines gym - and worked out on the machines. First up was 25 mins of treadmill-running, add a little speed and a little gradient, then resume and faster speed again. Then it was the machines to work out the biceps, triceps, calves and abdominals. Tried the cycling machine and almost let out a loud groan. But overall, it was a great workout!
Then I went home for maggi mee (actually it's 初前一丁brand) dinner cooked my mama with love. It was with ikan bilis soup base and with a half-boiled egg. Yummy!
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Beauty comes with a price, a high one
So, the lady has gotten vain, being proactive in seeking treatment in a bid to rid of her uber-dark eye circles. She got for herself a whitening eye essence, a custom-blended soothing eye cream and a dangui (read: 当归) essence that was to be applied to the under-eye masks made of plant extract - no cotton. It was interesting, trying out new products and hoping they would work.The consultant recommended treatment by an equipment which would direct current and light at the problem area, but this treatment is no cheap affair, costing around $200 with each use. With the recommended frequency of treatment of once every fortnight, you would need either a tai-tai or a career woman to sign-up. What's more, going for the treatment does not mean you can forgo your essence and cream, which already make up to quite an amount.
The price of beauty.
Sunday, April 22, 2007
High on Swiftness
We started off by rounding half of Yio Chu Kang swimming complex, then went downslope all the way into the road leading to Upper Paya Lebar, did a right turn into Serangoon Road and towards Bartley Road. WW was riding on his dad's oldie bike which kinda scared us when a handful of the spooks of the front wheel broke. Good thing the remaining didn't give way.
I like cycling for the swift feel, the wind in the face, sun in the eyes and the chance to explore new places and to absorb the sceneries. And of course, the sweat it induced, though it wasn't comparable to that of running (high running!). There were many beautiful houses we saw along the route, alongside the contrasting old townhouses which eluded such a rich flavour.
The nature, especially the sun, appeals so much to me that I may adapt my lifestyle to be more involved with it. Never know :)
Friday, April 20, 2007
Dizzy daze
There was numbness in my shoulder blade and stiffness in my lower back in the past two days, which led me to wonder how much damage our body was going through by such torture driven by work. I’ve seen friends gradually weakening in stamina and immunity and facing health problems when they approach 30 plus. But that’s such a young age to be bogged down by health issues and forego on other leisure and joys of life. So, is the corporate world a place to be for long?
Wed evening we had dinner with our CEO; one of those catch-up sessions to hear us out and let us know we’re not neglected in the organisation. On the whole it was insightful when he told us of some of the business theories and of the industry’s direction, even though I couldn’t fully appreciate them. And there was a topic on how the PAs under him learnt a lot, built up heaps of confidence and became changed persons. There was a part where I lost him, where he talked about how certain traits of one transformed, which certainly sounded like psychology to me. We do appreciate his attention especially during this time of personal “turmoil”.
I think it’s true that at some stage in your life, you start to follow your age group’s behaviour and adopt its mentality. Like how sis and I started checking out Coach bags recently (and I’m asking her to get one for me in her work trip to Minneapolis, woohoo). How we are taking up beauty and massage packages, applying mascara every working day and treating our skin with dedicated care with night creams and daily moisturizers which we didn’t used to believe in. And I’m excited about the MTM skincare appointment tomorrow, which may cost me $200+ depending on the effectiveness of the custom-blended sample.
Last night I dreamt about sis leaving me out at a spa cum gym place. We were there with a few other friends, prepared for some spa or exercise sessions when sis and the others decided to go for an-hour yoga session without informing me. At that point I felt cheated, abandoned and slightly angry thinking she no longer cared. And weird that it was not the first time I had such a dream as there was another similar-themed one around one week back. Could it be that we are drifting further away in our life paths? Never quite occurred to me that way, but underestimate not the power of the subconscious mind. =P
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
My Happy Moments
The moment frozen in time, when I opened my eyes from a nap to see WW by my side, looking at me (and my less-presentable sleepy face?).
I am starting to take note of little moments like these more, subconsciously. =)
The weekend just came and past. But after close to 3 years in the corporate world living a routine work life, I come to treasure my free times during the weekends very much. Sometimes I decide to take Sundays to rest and nua at home, but turn a little uneasy letting the day slip by without some activity. Thus most of the time I'd be on my bike with Fluffy in the basket, riding off to a nearby park or all the way to East Coast Park.
Then there were Sundays which I wanted to utilise more, by meeting up with friends and going under the sun. Like yesterday, where me with the Feng gang met up, both to celebrate Ivan's birthday and as a farewell to him before he left for Dubai again. We had a good two hours of chatting, eating and catching at Werner's Oven. Then together with sis & bf, me went to CoffeeClub and fell asleep there! Jialat man. Good thing WW came to pick me up before I started resting my head on the table.
Now it's back to another work week... and counting down to the weekend!
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Hop a little hop
If only everyday can be this light-hearted and good-feeling. But this feeling doesn't seem to last long.. as it was almost reduced by half come afternoon-time!
Sunday, April 08, 2007
Fluffy Walks
No picture of Fluffy today. She didn't cooperate by giving me a good angle!
Two weekends back, I brought Fluffy for a walk at Bedok Reservoir.
Some things in life are just... weird
Oh sweet moments
The break arising from the two-day course and the Good Friday holiday was good. It felt free and light not having to report to work for these few days and to be out of the maddening buzz, though I’ve just installed the VPN and Lotus Notes client application on my personal lappie. Well, for the sole purpose of clearing my emails and being able to pick up work fast on Monday morning.
The course “Making Great Presentations” held on last Wed and Thu was interesting though it needed preparation work. Each of the nine course participants had to give two presentations of their own, one in each day. My topics weren’t as interesting as some of the others, which included a proposal to hire two renowned football strikers in a bid to recover their team’s S League position and an informative sharing session on personal finance and investments. But still I managed to get good feedback from the audience (my other classmates) and the course instructor. We even had our presentations recorded in a DVD for our personal review.
Thurs night after German class, WW picked me up and drove to
Recently there had been unusual matters and somewhat shocking news, sending punching reminders to us on some of the more important things in life. It made us stop a step or two to reflect, ponder and worry. But I suspect by the middle of the coming week, we would have been submerged in our work and busy life once again that the reminders slip our minds. But well, there may be some good in that. Sometimes, not knowing gives you more comfort and less cause for worry. Just hope things be fine and luck be with us.
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
Work should always come after Health
Give me what I want
Why don't I go get what I desire for? We live only once in our lifetime after all.At least it won't turn bluish.
What can I say?
Gone.
Yah, I earn so much that I can afford to throw after one wear.
I can't wear whites :(
Because Mama always turn my white clothes into bluish ones.
Like the white skirt she mixed with a running-colour blue top in the washing machine. That wasted my matching white jacket.
Then the poor white knit top from
Grrr.
Still, made the remark “Why you wear white tops?”
!!!
Not that I have not reminded her, umpteen times, not to mix my whites with any other colours. My dear Mama..
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
A friend in need is a friend indeed
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Little updates
Work life has been hectic, me covering 2.5 persons’ workload. But like I always say, I work 2.5 times the load but get only 0.5 of the rightful pay. Don’t call me greedy. Generation Y seeks high rewards and fast returns and are willing to slog it out.
Then again, I've packed my routine so full with things that I'm finding it a little difficult to breathe. Tues - yoga; alternate Wed - jog @ Esplanade; Thu - German lessons; Fri - go out. Which leaves only Mondays for myself, where I revise my German and do some little stuff here and there. There are just too many things in life worth trying out and exploring.
WW has shifted house from the West to the North-east last weekend and with that our residences have become nearer. It takes only around 20 minutes on car to travel between our places, yippie! Speaking of car, I’m still eyeing the sporty white Swift. But I have this personal rule of not getting into debts, which means if I want Swift, it has to be almost full payment on its costs and a minimal instalment amount. Striving towards a debt-free and liberating life.
Monday, March 19, 2007
Giddy Monday
Fish!
Work's getting damn stressed la! Getting me to do dual roles when they are still paying me peanut-butter pay! My day's packed with meetings back-on-back, and time at my desk is taken up by fellow colleagues' enquiries or discussions through phone-call or in person. How to do work like that?!?!I'm starting to detest work. Boo.
Ah. No wonder pple spend so much, especially on big items. Retail therapy, temporary self-satisfaction.
Sunday, March 18, 2007
累
I feel so tired these days! Without a cup of teh in the morning, the rest of the day would be hard to get by. Is addiction to tea with condensed milk a bad thing?
These days everyone is tired and dreads working. Has a modern man’s life to be like this?
Ho. I just woke up from a 2-hour morning nap. Woke up with a feeling that I’m missing out on something in life. The sun’s bright, the weather’s fine, but I would have to do work on my laptop at home later. Perhaps a bicycle trip to ECP would do me good.
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Happy Birthday Mama!
It's Mama's birthday today! Though I didn't get to knock off from work early (I left at around 830pm), partly because I was waiting for Tian to finish her yoga, we managed to get home in time for dinner and cake-cutting before everyone's stomach called it a day. Tian helped order Green Tea Bavarian cake from The Patissier while I helped collect it during lunch time at Ann Siang Hill. Good choice. Mama liked the rum-soaked raisins, the bitter chocolate layer as well as the tasty green tea sponge layer. As a bonus, there were sour grapes/berries and strawberries on top. Yummy!
We had zi cha dinner downstairs on Sunday evening to celebrate in advance, knowing how difficult it is to get all at the dining table together on a workday. I'm happy to see Mama happy, and am proud to get her what she wants (secretly so pleased to see the two purple dresses she chose at BYSI). Of course, Papa would get the same pampered treatment from us come September, though I doubt he'd want any new clothes.
I'm reminded of how fortunate I am again, to have this wonderful family supporting me all the way, providing me with moral support, strength and warmth to pull me through life. :)
Sunday, March 11, 2007
Scary Singapore! (With its colony of ants)
The nightmarish IT Show at Suntec started on Thursday. People would have thought the crowds would converge only from Friday onwards, but how wrong, as the crowds were already packing Suntec on Thursday night. It's a scary nightmare, imagine being stuck on the escalator for 10 mins!
Living in Singapore is not easy and is getting more difficult with the increase in population size without extra land to accommodate all. Can you imagine 6.5 Million population? I would have to squeeze with 1,000 others in a MRT train, fight with 30 more cars at the CTE Ang Mo Kio exit, struggle to get into whatever queue which we need to be in and swim with 100 more people in the 10-lanes pool. Help me! The only good thing I suppose, is to ride on this mass population and create some businesses to tap this colony of ants!
My half-day off
After shopping was a tea-break at ToastBox with steaming hot teh and kopi plus a jam-spreaded thick toast. Very yummy! There was a traditional taste to the teh, which you can hardly find now.
While Papa Mama headed for home, I set off to Tiong Bahru to wait for WW to knock off from work. The sun-loving me strolled to the park beside Tiong Bahru Plaza and set foot there for one whole hour, basking in the evening sun. I thought I could post my photos to this blog in the park itself, but ah to my dismay I realised I needed to sign up for this service with M1 first. Its $5.25 extra charge a month proved not worth it tho. So no chance to do mobile blogging, boo.
Yesterday was a day out with WW and his mum and sis. We went first to 40HSD house they're going to move into next week (and staying for the next half year), then to another high-end condo, The Imperial, his bro-in-law purchased. It's damn cool. Aspires me to strive smart and hard to earn the opportunity for such luxuries. People these days sure know how to enjoy life.
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Critising the media's language standards
What contrast is this? 48% NO coverage versus 86% with coverage – I don’t see this as a direct comparison/contrast. Wouldn’t it be clearer to say 52% versus 86%? Furthermore, does their “insured” refer to MediShield insurance?
Cover page leh. Can they have better English standards?
Monday, March 05, 2007
I've been spending $$
And the latest big-item spend was on this! Sony Ericsson k618i, along with M1 broadband plan which ties me down for half a year and other accessories that come with it. A coincidence that my old phone was bought just 1 day less than a year before this one mobile phone. Yesterday I went shopping for clothes too and spent $116 on 3 tops. Am I too deprived or what?These few weeks I've seen quite a lot of commotion, big or small, in the office. There had been arrows flying around (reminds me of Just Follow Law, funny) but luckily none was hitting on me (perhaps coz I'm too small a fry). There were emails on a team lead who failed to exercise diligence on his execution work and another chain of emails on the quality of work produced by our consultants. Sometimes I wonder why we have to go to this extent? Also, does it mean the louder you are, the more likely you'll win? Another propelling reason why the corporate world is not a place to be, especially when you're higher up there.
Been rather busy, both with work and with after-work activities. Last Wed I jioed WW out for movies after work and I was happy I made the move. After all we hardly meet during the weekdays, but I thought if not now, then when? Do what you want to do soon, if not now, or there may be another chance.


